But things have gotten so bad between us. I don’t see us ever being together ever again. Like we used to be when we were teenagers. But then of course everything always happens for a reason. I guess it was never meant to be. But it’s just something we have no control over and that’s what destiny is. But no more worries, rest your head and go to sleep. Maybe one day we’ll wake up and this will all just be a dream.
STORY:
Boy:I broke up with her.
His Best Friend:What happened?
Boy:She’s just too much for me.
His Best Friend:What makes you say that? What did she do wrong?
Boy:Well,
…for one.. She only cared about her appearance. Always had to look good,
always took forever to get dressed! So insecure..
His Best
Friend:So, you broke her heart because she wanted to keep your eyes
locked on her? She wanted you to see that you have the prettiest girl
under your sleeve and not think otherwise? I see..
Boy:Oh.. Well..
She’d often call me or text me asking where I am, who I’m with, telling
me not to smoke, not to drink. She’s so clingy!
His Best Friend:So,
you broke her heart because she cares about your well being? Because she
cares about you a lot? And her greatest fear is losing you. I see..
Boy:But.. Uhh.. Well, she’d always cry when I say something slightly
mean. She can’t handle anything. She’s a crybaby!
His Best Friend:So,
you broke her heart because she has feelings? And because she just
wanted to hear you say you love her? I see..
Boy:I.. Well! You know,
she’d get jealous easily. I could barely talk to other girls! She’s so
annoying! I had to hide it from her.
His Best Friend:So, you broke
her heart because she just wanted you to commit to her? She thought you
were faithful, but you lied so she could find out later and hurt even
more? She just wanted the guy she loves the most to love only her. I
see..
Boy:Well, she..
His Best Friend:You broke up with her
because she’s good for you? She just wanted the best for you? She’s
broken now because you were selfish. Are you proud?
Boy:I broke her heart.. Because I couldn’t see what was happening.. What happened to me?
His
Best Friend:You lost the girl that loved you like no one else could.
You see? You didn’t want her when all she ever wanted was you. THAT’S
what happened.
Ano nga ba ung pagmamahal? Eto ba yung kahit na alam mong may iba sya e minamahal mo pa din. Is it everytime you saw her/him face biglang may kung ano kang nararamdaman. The effin’ feeling that everyday sya lang at sya ang naiisip mo. Para sayo ano nga ba ito? Kanya2 man ng opinyon, lahat tayo e nararanasan ito. Masaya, oo. Pero masakit at mahirap din minsan, sabi nga e “If everything between the two of you are getting special and sweeter, it also gets confusing to know if everything is going to be true”. May mga tao kasi na hindi mo talaga alm kung ano ba nasa isip nila, hindi naman siguro ikaw yung bida sa “MIND MASTER” para mabasa nasa isip ng isang tao diba. May mga taong hindi mo alam kung mahal kba talaga, sinasabing mahal ka pero ang tanong e ikaw lang ba sinasabihan nya neto, malay mo madami pala kayo. It is better to end something and start another, than to imprison yourself on something that was impossible, sabi nga nila “Let go!” masakit man o mahirap gawin, e tumigil kna lang kung alam mo namang mali na diba. Ay te, hindi ka naman siguro bato diba. E teka, totoo bang may taong manhid na sa pagmamahal?! E diba nga hindi naman natuturuan ang puso sa kung ano at sino ang dapat mahalin nito. E ano yung sinasabi nilang “Everything has a purpose”? E diba nga may mga nagsasabi ding “Tayo ang gumagawa ng kapalaran natin?! Hay, kung ano man yan, ang mahalaga nagmamahal tayo. Masaktan man tayo atleast naging totoo tayo sa nararamdaman natin, mahirapan man tayo atleast naging masaya din naman tayo. Failed man ang kalabasan nito atleast we’ve try.
E ikaw nagmahal ka na ba? Nasaktan, nahirapan at pinasaya ka na ba ng pagmamahal mo?! :*
act like you are. I hate people who still end up flirting with everybody even though they are apparently in a “committed” relationship. Committed my ass. If you’re just those type of people who can’t help but hit on people who hit on you, then you might as just be single forever. Don’t you realize the consequences if you do those kind of things? Not only will you potentially lose your girlfriend/boyfriend, you’re going to lose your future boyfriends/girlfriends too.

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